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Faith. What is his/her religious belief?
If you do not share the same faith, it can cause friction in the relationship because each religion shares different views on relationships and the afterlife.
Sex. Does he/she believe in premarital sex? Or, how long should you wait before intercourse?
This is an important question that will determine his/her intentions. Some relationships are build solely on sex.
Drugs/Alcohol/Tobacco. Does he/she use any of these substances?
It’s important to know if you’re getting into a relationship with a person who abuses any of these substances. Abuse of these could get you into trouble with the law or could lead to domestic violence.
History. What was the cause of past relationships ending?
This can show you what to expect in the relationship with this person. Also, you can determine what he/she does not accept in a relationship.
Intentions. What are his/her intentions with this new relationship?
This will show whether he/she is just looking for a one night stand or a companion.
Hobbies. What is his/her hobbies?
Some hobbies may interfere with the relationship and take up too much time that could be spent together. Of course, some hobbies can be shared, such as playing in a band.
Children. Does he/she want children in the future?
If there is a disagreement over having a child
, then it can put a strain on the relationship. Make sure you share the same views on having children or not having children.
Family. What is his/her family like? Will they accept you?
When you get serious with someone, you will usually be around his/her family a lot. If you do not get along with his/her family, then it may cause many disputes.
Job. What is his/her job? What goals does he/she have for the job?
Time spent on a job is time spent apart. Make sure you’re willing to make the sacrifice of spending time apart. Also, make sure that the job is respectable and can provide for you in marriage.
Marriage. What will be your role in the marriage?
Make sure you know what he/she expects you to do in the marriage. Does he/she want you to work or stay at home? You need to share the same views on this or you can end up miserable.
