1. Make small talk.
2. Don’t just ask about small insignificant experiences. Share them.
3. Listen carefully. Knowing that you are being heard is the key.
4. Ask questions, and don’t assume that you know the answers.
5. Talk about yourself, but don’t take all of the air.
6. Once you’ve become aware of some of the hidden shared moments you’re having with your partner, see if you can find ways to increase your daily amount of insignificant experiences together.