You don’t actually want to breakup.
You haven’t discussed the reason for breaking up with your partner yet.
You’re dealing with an issue that has never come up before.
They are making sincere actions toward change.
You are getting your information from someone other than your partner.
You’re aware you’re bowing to outside pressure.
You’re dealing with an honest mistake.
The problem is a behavior that can definitely be fixed.
You’re reacting because you’re scared of getting hurt again.
The problem is your own, and you’d like to work through it.