Ladies his mind works differently. men are not hardwired the same way as women.
Some studies have shown that men react to strong emotion more physically than women do. Blood pressure goes up, hearts race, and it takes much longer for his body to return to normal once the crisis has passed than it does for women.
So most men want to stay away from strong emotion.
Women often want to ask a man, What are you thinking? when he’s quiet.
Some men get quiet when they’re pondering a problem. It does not mean anything is wrong. It just means he’s working something out. Women talk their way through problems. Most men think their way through.
Some woman focus on feelings, while men focus on problem-solving.