If there’s one good thing to arise from Chris Rock’s ‘Good Hair’ documentary, its the dialogue that the film has created. Sure, it stemmed mostly from the fact that some of us felt attacked by the filmmakers’ perspective. But, still, we’re talking about the issues behind our hair choices, and that’s a good thing, right? Some smart, funny, and brutally honest blog posts and comments have been popping up in the wake of ‘Good Hair,’ and there’s so much to be learned from all sides of the discussion.
I know many of my weave- or perm-wearing sisters have felt judged by women like myself, who proudly rock their natural hair. And speaking from personal experience, I’ve been the recipient of some nasty side eyes by ladies wearing waist-length Beyonce-grade store-purchased hair. For no reason whatsoever!
I think many of our hair issues start with us, and they can end with us. By ceasing the judgment and ill speaking of others, we can grow to embrace and even enjoy each other’s differences.
by Patrice Grell Yursik





