* Feeling like they are not needed or desired in their current relationship
* More sex (sometimes due to a miss match of sexual drive in their relationship)
* Opportunistic sex (if the opportunity occurs, they take it)
* Sexual variety through having different sexual experiences and partners
* Too boost their own ego to feel let they are still attractive to the opposite sex
* For the thrill of the chase – concurring the prize
* Revenge (to get back at their partner)
* A female predator – yes unfortunately there are out there
* Self sabotage – sabotaging their current relationship
* Affects of too much alcohol
* Sexual addiction
Well there are various reasons for why men cheat it’s important to remember that it has very little to do with the man’s current partner or relationship. Instead it’s because the man hasn’t been able to communicate to his partner (or himself) what he needs or how he is feeling.
Are you concerned that your man is a cheater? Has he cheated in the past and you want to try and prevent it in the future?
While some of the reasons in the list above are out of your control there are some things that you can do to insure he is unlikely to and that you have given your relationship its best chance.
The most important thing you can do is to make your man feel needed and wanted. I’m not telling you to ignore the bad behaviour (well maybe some of the less important stuff) but you need to pay attention and compliment him on the good things that he does. Tell him how clever he is and how safe and secure he makes you feel. This may seem like such a basic and simple thing to do and it is, but you will be amazed with the results. Men need to feel like they are fulfilling there partners needs. Often we take them for granted and forget that they need to feel wanted too – they just have difficulties in expressing it!
If you can help your man feel good about himself, he won’t even look at anyone else, he will feel happy and fulfilled in his relationship and as a bonus he will give back to you what he is receiving and your relationship will take on a new supportive and loving style.
