Some secrets on what men are looking for in a woman - Most people think men are looking for the really gorgeous woman - But most men say that they're looking for an attractive woman yes but someone that is just as attractive on the inside - Men want confidence - Men want someone that can be spontaneous - Men say that they like women that like to smile and have fun - Men say no pressure – no stress – no drama - Men want someone that loves to spend a lot of time in that bedroom - Men say it's just in us we love sex.