When you're in a relationship for a long time sometimes things just change. This does not mean you don't love your partner - you're just used to each other. It's very healthy to keep your connection in your relationship and not just become roommates. Ladies change things up sometimes - you know what he likes. Whether it's lingerie or nothing at all - make sure you let him know that bedroom is open for business - and not just for sleep. If you have to put a OPEN sign on your bedroom door and have some fun with it.