Single good men where are they? Ladies if you're single and you're looking for a good man - Find places where men hang out The gym - Coffee shop - Sporting events - etc. In order to find a good man you have to get out - I'm not saying you have to go hang out at a bar or a club but you have to get out of the house - If you like a guy into fitness join a gym If you like a guy that is smart and loves to read – hang out at the library.