Stop waiting for him to propose to you - do this If you've been in a relationship for a long time - sometimes we get comfortable and just accept things the way they are. But if you've been with somebody for a long time and they are not talking about marriage try this... Talk to your man about it let him know that you are interested in getting married Remember just talk. See where his head is and don't get mad. Just let your man know that you would love to be his wife. If he's totally 100% against getting married - you might need to rethink things. But it is okay to at least know where his head is on getting married but remember just talk.