While your man is chillin' having a cup of coffee this is what - he might be thinking - I wish I could just go home and chill with no pressure - stress or drama. Hope she's in the mood to make love tonight. Here are some broad topics they think about - Making money Sports Family (The Kids) The weather Dreaming about the future maybe a new house or car Ladies - when you're talking to men - they're very simple. The main thing is they just want to relax and be pressure free.