The approach you’re going to take will depend to a certain extent on the type of woman you want to attract and the type of relationship you’re going to want to forge. When out on the prowl for a night of fun, women are basically looking for the fun, exciting and really hot guy.
But when a woman is out to meet the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with, the criteria can change considerably. Yes, ideally there’s still a part of her who wants that fun and excitement, but she’s also willing to dig deeper. The question is, what will she find once she’s finished digging?
A male friend once complained about his lack of luck with the ladies. He had a great job, great salary and didn’t understand why women seemed so put off by, what he called, his unflappable confidence. I had to tell him that his unflappable confidence tended to come off as cocky and pretentious. Instead of just humbly talking about his position and salary, he would make a big show of it and constantly come back to reiterate just how important he was and how well paid he was.
While you want to impress the girl you’re with, don’t push it so far that you come off looking like a desperate show off. In the end this might only serve to make you look insecure rather than confident.
Don’t Rush the Sex
We know you guys think of it often, if not constantly. But to arrive to a date and have the guy give you that once over is not appealing. Nor do women want a man who’ll be so quick to make sexual advances or even jokes that circle the topic.
Play it safe by simply getting to know her at first. You’ll have plenty of time to learn of her sexual prowess as time goes on.
Treat Her Special
The best relationship advice you can get is to treat your lady right.