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Don’t do sleepovers. If you don’t want to have sex, you shouldn’t put yourself and your partner in situations when sex will be an option. Stay away from your partner’s place when you are finished with your date and just go home. You should also wait for romantic getaways or trips which require you to spend the night together.
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Don’t get drunk. Drinking while trying your hardest to keep sex from happening with the person you care about and find attractive is not a smart idea. Alcohol could get the best of you both by clouding your judgment, and once you cross that line there is no turning back.
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Be honest with your partner. This is your best option if you want to continue having an open and loving relationship. Explain to your partner that while you care for him, you are just not ready for sex and would like to wait until you are. Even if this sounds corny, if your partner really likes you, he will have no problem respecting your wishes.
