Signs When He’s Not Into You

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He doesn’t ask you out. Don’t fool yourself by playing “what if” – “What if he’s shy?”, “What if he doesn’t know I’m single?”, “What if he doesn’t think I’m interested in him?”. Men will overcome any shyness they may have in order to ask out a woman. They will go to great lengths to find out if she’s single and they do not even think about the possibility that she may not like them. The only reason he is not asking you out is because he is not interested in you.

He doesn’t call. He did not loose your number and he isn’t too busy. for someone Even the busiest person will make time  if they care about you . Men are not stupid, so on the off chance he did loose your number, he would find a way to get a hold of you if he wanted. Do not continue to call him numerous times, letting him know how to get a hold of you. He already knows how to get a hold of you.

He has asked you out on a date but he isn’t engaging in conversation. I have no idea who made up the stereotype that men don’t talk but it is not true. Men talk just as much as women do. When a man is interested in you he will share information about himself and ask you questions about your life.

He talks about other women. When a man starts telling you about other women in his life he is making it clear that he is not interested in you.

He flirts with other women in front of you. This is a definite sign that you do not have his attention.

When he’s with you, he isn’t “with” you. You’re telling him about the promotion at work you just got and he’s texting his brother about going to the game next weekend. This is his way of telling you that he finds just about anything to be more important than you.

He says he thinks of you as a sister or doesn’t want to ruin your friendship. That may sound sweet but the truth is no man worries about ruining a friendship if he is truly interested in a woman.

He won’t plan ahead. If he asks you out, it’s always at the last minute. This is because he didn’t find anyone better to ask out.

He cancels plans at the last minute or just doesn’t show up. He made plans with you but then something “better” came along. He met a new woman that day, one of his buddies called or he decided that he’d rather stay home. Either way he’s saying that you’re not that important to him.

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