1- You can’t help but smile when you see her/him and s/he is always smiling back.
2- You feel comfortable and secure in the relationship and really trust your partner not to hurt you; there is no need for jealousy or suspicion.
3- There have been good times and bad times and through, or in spite of, them all you have remained together.
3- There are no major drama in the relationship; you do not test one another’s love, engage in relationship- gossip or feel the need to play games.
5- You each do kind and thoughtful things for the other “just because” and doing them makes both people feel good.
6- Outside pressures are few and far between.
7- You enhance one another, neither one of you presses the other to do things that may lead to harm or that the other is opposed to doing.
8- There is no sacrifice, only compromise.
9- Sex or no sex: it doesn’t matter, either way it isn’t an issue and nobody has been pressured to do something they weren’t ready to do.
10- You know that everything you feel is returned by your partner.
