The first thing you want to do is look your best. This isn’t simply because men are attracted to good-looking women but because taking the time to look your best says a lot about you. It shows that you care about yourself, and it usually shows that you are motivated and successful. If you go out with hair that hasn’t been washed in a week or wrinkled clothes or looking like you just rolled out of bed, it is going to make him think that you just don’t care.
Looking good also has the added benefit of making you more confident. No matter how you feel about your appearance, if you go that extra mile to make it that much better, you will feel better about how you look. That in turn comes out to the guys you meet and the guys who see you. They love seeing confidence in women, it suggests motivation, drive and a sense of knowing what you want.
You also want to take the time to keep the mystery and the intrigue alive. When having that first conversation with a guy, never tell him more than the basics and never go into anything sad in your past. You want to keep the conversation like and fun, this way he will have to suggest a real date to get to know you better. You also want to keep the conversation fun because men will always want a woman that they can have fun with, so if you can show him that you are that person he will be even more happy to spend time with you.
